ABOUT A POST

I made a post this morning about what has been happening to me over the last week and many of you were so very kind towards me but this afternoon somebody left a horrible comment on the post. It affected me so deeply and so badly that I am afraid I have binned the whole post but I do know who my real friends are and I hold in my heart all the lovely things that you said to me. Unfortunately this has now left me afraid to express myself on my blog because the comment was so obviously horrible. I don’t wish to go into it any further but it has gone very deep and I feel very afraid now to post anything on my blog but let us see what happens in the future. I may still post poems but they will not express my deepest feelings thank you for all of you have been kind to me

28 thoughts on “ABOUT A POST

  1. blindzanygirl

    Yes Di. It was disgusting what the lerson said a d I have emailed them ti tell them not ever to comment again, and that I may indeed never post again. I have lost my confudence.

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  2. Oh don’t let whoever these stupid, insensitive people, or person stop you from writing. They are obviously the ones with the problem. Anyone that is being too nasty to you on your blog, do block them. It’s your blog, not theirs. Write what you want. Xx

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  3. People get a sense of power with the anonymity of the internet and they take advantage of that. Don’t let them take your power Lorraine. Your power is in your honesty, your faith, your writing. Be strong. Delete the comment and move forward. Peace!

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  4. blindzanygirl

    Thankyou so much Tim. I deleted the whole post. I had been really ill, and a miracle had happened with my mother who is 93 and nearing death, but someone chose to see something in me that was so bad, but untrue. Being so very ill right now, I needed to delete the whole lot. But I shall still post my poems. Thankyou for your very kind comment Tim. 😊

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  5. blindzanygirl

    Thanks Captain Q. It wasn’t exactly reportable. It hit below the belt at a very vuknerable time in my life. But thankyou si much for your caring 😊

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  6. blindzanygirl

    Thanks so much Liz. When you are as ill as I am rught now, and have a dying mother, it makes you so vulnerable. I know you truly understand that. Thankyou so much for your words of encouragement. Much love to you Liz ❤️

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  7. I am so angry with whoever is doing this to you. I didn’t see the comment and only knew when you posted this one.
    You don’t need this crap at anytime, let alone now, which makes it worst. That’s why I am really upset about it.
    Much love to you. Xx

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  8. blindzanygirl

    Thanks Liz. I emailed the person, and asked them hot to post comments any more. I don’t mind them reading my poems. They are there for all to read. But I can’t take those kinds of comments. Much much love tobyou my friend ❤️❤️❤️

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  9. I know it is hard not to let such thoughtless (to put it kindly) comments get to you, but realize that ignorant people are what they are — their ignorance really isn’t about who YOU are, but about who THEY are. Once you understand that, I think you’ll be better able to let it go.

    You are loved by those who appreciate you — that’s what counts.

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  10. blindzanygirl

    Thanks mistermuse. I know what you say is true. But when you are very ill as I have been over the last week, and really struggling, and with a dying mother, it really hits below the belt. But you are right. I have let it go now. But it hurt like hell for a while. I had my mother on one end of the ohone not able to breathe, and feeling quite sick myself, and then this came up. I was floored. But if course, you ARE RIGHT. AND yes, I HAVE let go of it now. Thankyou so much for your help and caring 😊

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  11. I can understand how you felt like, at that moment.. Don’t know what to say.. Feeling so sorry for you, you had to go through this, feeling bad so many of us couldn’t read your post, your thoughts, for one such comment.. ☹️☹️

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  12. blindzanygirl

    Thankyou so much Debby. It made me feel so vulnerable and afraid of being judged the same as that person judged me. I was very sick and vulnerable at the time so it went deep. Bless you Debby. The post was only explaining why I had been a bit absent lately, and it ended with something wonderful about my mother who may die soon. But you can still read about my mother in my post about Love. Therenis not much missing 😊

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  13. I don’t understand how people can live with themselves when they post rude, nasty, hurtful comments. What are they hoping to accomplish other than to hurt or upset the target of their nasty comment? I hope you blocked this person.

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  14. blindzanygirl

    Thankyou Tim. Peace to you too. Your wirds helped and encouraged so much. Not sure if I replied to you originally or not. Sorry if I missed you. Your words were so kind

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